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I am facilitating several International trainings in Family and Systemic Constellations and Trauma Healing ‘Heal your Roots’.

You find the new training dates 2020 – 2023 for Israel and Germany below.

Bookings are open.

All trainings are held in English (with translation if needed).

Due to the uncertainties during Covid-19 time – please check in for any changes of dates.

Thank you for your patience!


‘Heal your Roots’ – ONLINE BASIC COURSE

Next course: 23. March – 25. May 2021

In these challenging times we all get triggered, and old traumata and unresolved issues from the past may pop up in unexpected ways and disturb and even shatter us deeply.

In this course you will learn:

  • How old patterns from our family of origin still influence us deeply
  • How you can resolve them and live more happy and free
  • What supports you in this process
  • How you can let go
  • How you can support yourself and your loved ones
  • How you can create strong resources and use them
  • We will do a family /systemic constellation in each session, so you get a deeper understanding.
  • We will do healing rituals, meditations, small structures to give you tools to use in your daily life.
  • There will be space for questions and answers.
  • You will also receive some bonus materials.
  • The course consists of 10 lessons of 2 hours each.
  • Dates: 23. March 2021 – 25. May 2021, every Tuesday 18:00 – 20:00 pm CEST.

Here is a comment from one of the participants of the Online Basic Course:

‘I am one of the fortunate participants who is about to join for the 5th time. The international character of these meetings and the outstanding skills of Sakino as a professional facilitator, make to me the Tuesday evening meetings an important moment of the week where we can share and learn. I have made a big shift in my personal growth throughout the last year, thanks to this wonderful group and the loving care of Sakino’. (Veeto Erika Flock, Netherlands)

What you will gain:

Deeper understanding of family and systemic constellation work, basic understanding of trauma, easy to apply tools for daily life.

Who is this course for:

Everyone. Especially also for people working with people – therapists, people in any helping professions.

Costs: 299,00€

For further informations and booking please contact me :
Mail: sakino1082@aol.com
Phone: ..49 172 914 66 09
Limited number of spaces!

‘Heal your Roots’ Training in Israel

Dates 2020 – 2022:

1. Module: 10.-12.12.2020 – 24.-26.12.2020
2. Module: 11.-13. 3.2021 – 24.-26. 3.2021
3. Module: 3.-5. 6.2021 – 17.-19.6.2021
4. Module: 9.-11.9.2021 – 23.-25.9.2021
5. Module: 2.-4.12.2021 – 16.-18.12.2021
6. Module: 10.-12.3.2022 – 24.-26.3.2022

‘Heal your Roots’ Training in Berlin:

Dates 2021 – 2023:

Module 1: 5.-10.11.2021
Module 2: 14.-19.1.2022
Module 3: 15.-20.4.2022
Module 4: 26.-31.8.2022
Module 5: 11.-16.11.2022
Module 6: 20.-25.1.2023

Training Fee: 4600,00€ –

Early bird reductions available. Please get in touch.


Dates in Israel 2019 – 2021

Module 1: 12. – 14.12., 26. – 28.12. 2019
Module 2: 5. – 7.3., 19. – 21.3. 2020
Module 3: 10. – 12.9., 24. – 26.9. 2020
Module 4: 3. – 5.12., 17. – 19.12. 2020
Module 5: 4. – 6.3., 18. – 20.3. 2021
Module 6: 17.-18.9.2021, 1.-2.10.2021

Family and Systemic Constellation and Trauma Healing Training with Sakino Mathilde Sternberg

What is family constellation?

Family constellation is a gentle yet powerful technique that reveals and heals our family ties.

Through family constellation

  • We will reveal behavior patterns in the family system that continue from generation to generation
  • We will understand the hidden dynamics in our family
  • We will get different perspective and a deeper understanding of our emotional and behavioral patterns
  • We will allow full acceptance of the facts that have occurred in the past, thus solving their harmful effects on our lives
  • We will bring healing, acceptance and completion to relationships in our lives
  • We will allow love that has been frozen to flow again and a very ancient sense of separateness to dissolve itself
  • We will feel connected again, to ourselves, to our loved ones, to life
  • This method can also be used for study in organizations and teams

Is the course suitable for me and what will I get from it?

If you are a therapist, counselor, coach, or anyone intending to engage in working with people, you can use the constellation method in individual and group settings.

The constellation method will enrich your professional toolbox by enabling you to uncover hidden dynamics in your client’s family system, in a way that is not possible with other treatment methods.

Furthermore, constellation is a very fast way to detect and sometimes even repair unhealthy entanglements that may cause the client unnecessary suffering

If you work with people such as counselor, teacher, doctor, doula, midwife, mentor, etc., you will gain a deeper understanding of the dynamics inherent in your client’s various systems, which will enrich their professional capabilities and yours in a significant way

You, for yourself, will understand more deeply the dynamics of your family of origin, your past, your country, your culture, etc., that have shaped you and influenced who you have become.

You will accept and come to terms with your past and your origin, change destructive patterns of behavior, and live your life in a free, natural, satisfying and happy present

Sakino Mathilde Sternberg – Germany

Born in Germany, holds a diploma in Clinical Psychology, with over 40 years of experience in various fields of therapy and counseling. Sakino is specializing in Systemic Family Therapy (Virginia Satir), Trauma Therapy (NARM, SE) and more
Trained in family and systemic constellation by Bert Hellinger, founder of the this method, and others

In addition, Sakino was trained in:

  • Primal Therapy (Early Childhood Work Sexuality Therapy
  • Body-focused psychotherapy and Somatic Experiencing
  • Gestalt therapy
  • Behavioral therapy
  • Encounter
  • Client Centered Psychotherapy and storytelling
  • Trained by Bert Hellinger (Germany), Dr. Peter Levine (USA), Dr. Lawrence Heller (USA), Prof. Dan Bar-On (Israel), Prof. Meinolf Peters (Germany), Denny Yuson (Netherlands), Dr. Gunthard Weber (Germany), Dr. Stephen Porges, Dr. Gabor Mate, and others.
  • Works in Berlin in her private clinic, facilitates workshops and training sessions in Europe and around the world
  • She is known for her precision and intuition, endowed with deep love for the human condition and rare sensitivity as well as limitless patience

How is the training structured?

Total training will be 36 days of 8 training units – total 288 training units

Topics to be taught in the training

Each module will deal with a specific topic

Module 1
Family Constellation – Basic Principles Part 1
We will facilitate the constellation of each participant’s family of origin.
Participants will learn about their family system as well as the ‘order of love’, which includes the basic principles of place, order and balance, as described by Bert Hellinger.

Module 2
Family Constellation – Basic Principles Part 2
We will facilitate constellations on specific topics such as: relationships, various body symptoms, illnesses, cultural issues, social issues and more

Module 3
Biography Seminar, Working with Genograms and Storytelling – We will work in depth with each participant’s personal lifestory using genograms, photos and gathering detailed information over several generations.
This module includes also healing and cleansing ceremonies. This part requires various preparation activities, which are assigned in Module 2.

Module 4
We will learn how to conduct constellations in individual sessions, using symbols, placeholders and imaginations
We will also learn to use constellations beyond the definition of a family, for example, corporations, social systems, etc.

Module 5
Coping with trauma – We will learn about the dynamics of trauma, how to identify it and how to deal with trauma in the constellation and how to protect from (re) experiencing trauma.

Module 6
Practical Implementation and Supervision – Students will practice constellations with each other under supervision. We will learn how to practice self-care – how to protect ourselves and stay healthy and strong while dealing with our client’s life, families, and relationships.

  • Participants will receive assignments between modules
  • The study will be conducted in English with translation if needed
  • Some of the modules will also be attended by Sakino’s students from other countries around the world
  • After completing all parts of the training, participants will receive a certificate of participation and completion

Participation in the training is only possible in full – the number of places in the course is limited so we will not allow partial participation

The certificate

A student who regularly attends the sessions and fulfills all the requirements of the program will get an international diploma on behalf of the “Joy of Living” center in Germany.

Since the Center is a member of the Official Psychotherapists Organization in Germany, as well as the “German Systemic Constellation Association”, the certificate is internationally recognized.